Here I am!

Apparently i didn't realize i have more people reading my blog than i thought! Therefore, i had to make some changes - I removed the option for the public to read this and only invited my preferred list and now I'm writing a new post because of the people i do allow to read this they have been asking 'what's going on . . .why aren't you posting !"

So here it is - a new post - a new post about nothing - and nothing is sometimes a good thing!

Actually i take that back - i have plenty to write about but not enough time to sit on my rear and create paragraphs to express my journey's lately, which is why my last few post where in bullet format. But for the sake of keeping my friendships i will briefly write my newest realization in life; The way to successfully move-on and be independent is by doing the same things you and your ex did in the past - by yourself. This goes against my old theory of 'Move on and forget about it'! That's not humanly possible! By revisiting the scene of the crime you create a new memory (a better, stronger memory either by yourself or with friends - don't do it with a new man, it just doesn't work that way). It's been a nice and content experience and has really boasted my self-esteem to know i have control of my demons and empowering my new found passion of never being a victim of circumstance!